Friday, July 20, 2012

Readers Win!


“Reading is everything. Reading makes me fell like I’ve accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. Reading makes me smarter. Reading gives me something to talk about later on. Reading is the unbelievably healthy way my attention deficit disorder medicates itself. Reading is escape, and the opposite of escape; it’s a way to make contact with reality after a day of making things up, and it’s a way of making contact with someone else’s imagination after a day that’s all too real. Reading is grist. Reading is bliss.”  - Nora Ephron

People who love to read have a huge advantage. Fostering a love of reading in children may be one of the greatest gifts parents and teachers can give.

Readers learn important thinking skills. They must be decoders and analyzers. Readers have to make sense of information and discover patterns in it. They must remember details and put them together. Readers learn to look at the big picture and the tiny mosaic tiles that make it up.

Readers must sustain attention. There is an epidemic of attention disorders. While there may be many causes, the fast visual pace of games, movies, television, and websites does not encourage children to focus. Reading does. A child must concentrate for a prolonged period of time to read. Even small children can learn to sit and listen to an adult reading. That is why it is critical that parents read to their children even before these children recognize letters or words. They learn to maintain focus.

Readers live in language. While some backward places are still teaching vocabulary through drills and lists, the current research tells us that, if we want kids to develop their vocabularies, they must read. It is not enough to memorize a word and its definition; there must be some context for that meaning. Meaning disembodied dies.

Years ago, I took over a class that was designed to strengthen students’ vocabularies. The prior teacher had given students dictionaries and had them look up lists of words and memorize them. We refocused the course on reading. The first year I taught the reading based curriculum, kids would identify words from the prior year. “Mr. Hirsch, this word was on the last year’s list!” When I asked them what it meant, they could never remember.

Like music, reading is about decoding and translating. Readers learn to love that process. Although students can get hooked into reading with an interesting topic, many readers will read anything because they like the process of reading! It is better to read something interesting, true, but intense readers will read because the act itself is fulfilling.

Students who look critically at their reading will learn to question, evaluate, and imagine. They realize that there are different ways to see the world and they must find strategies to weigh differing points of view. Readers become critical thinkers!

A study even found that one of the best predictor of student success in school was not parents’ income, level of education, or school quality but the number of books in their homes. My parents’ library was a message and a goal for me. I wanted to be able to read the books my folks were reading. It gives me great pleasure when my children want to read the books on my shelves.

Reading is the primary skill. Reading is the basic foundation of learning and thinking. It cannot be overemphasized. Strong, focused, and critical readers are the real gifted students! 

Friday, July 6, 2012

Put Down the Phone!


Not long ago, I was in an Imax movie and there were several teenage girls sitting next to me. The screen was BIG and the sound was LOUD. It was a very engaging experience. Yet, these girls were texting through it!

I came home to find that my son had a few friends over. They were seated at the kitchen table playing games on their phones. They were in their own worlds. The boys without smart phones were left out and eventually went home.

At my daughter’s college orientation, there were many parents who, despite having traveled to learn about their child’s college, were on their phones throughout important presentations.

Then there are those who cannot put down their phones even when it endangers their own or others’ physical safety. There are far too many drivers with their eyes on their phones instead of the road!  

What is going on here?  Why are we so obsessed with our phones? Why does using our technology supersede all other concerns? We make a statement with our phone use. We tell the people around us what is REALLY important to us.

Here are some my guidelines for smart smart phone use:

1. No use of the phone while driving. Not at stoplights. Not hands free. Not voice command. While I am driving, I drive. If my phone rings and I need to use it, I pull over.

2. I don’t do phone “work” in public amidst social gatherings. If I must send an email or text, I excuse myself and go to a private spot and do my business.

3. I do not use my phone as a toy when I could interact with the people around me. Waiting rooms, airports, and other solitary places are good spots to play games, read newsfeeds, or check websites. If it would be rude to read, it is not okay to use the phone.

4. I think it is acceptable to use my phone as a point of conversation. For example, I may show people photos on my phone or use its resources to find a restaurant, look up the answer to a question raised in conversation, or demonstrate something. In this way, the people around me are sharing my phone.

5. When I am having a phone conversation, I speak more quietly and go to an area away from people having face-to-face conversations.

6. I do not pull out my phone during public performances, presentations, or events. If there is an unavoidable reason to use my phone during a concert, speaker, or movie, I leave the room. And my phone is completely silent from the moment I enter a performance space!

7. The people present may not be ignored. If my phone rings and interrupts a conversation, I treat the people around me with the same respect I would give callers I am about to put on hold – and I do not leave them hanging for long. This is similar to the situation where, when I am talking to someone, my child comes up to me and asks for my attention. It is socially acceptable and appropriate to say to those with whom I am talking, “Excuse me for one minute, my kid needs me. I’ll be right back.”  The key here is that it must be this kind of situation. Which leads me to:

8. I am highly selective about which calls I will take. My default ring tone is silent. Only people I want to hear from are assigned a ringtone. My family and my close friends have individual ringtones. So I know who is calling without looking at my phone and many callers are simply directed to voice mail when I am otherwise engaged.

The big rule is people first, phones fourth.