Years before my family and I even considered a minivan, I
had a great idea: What if I decorated a vehicle to look like one of the
shuttlecrafts on Star Trek? I shared
this idea with wife and, perhaps since we weren’t talking about actually buying
one, she gave it a thumbs up. That was all I needed.
We didn’t need a minivan with one child: a sedan and a fun red sports car worked for our family. However, when child number two was on his way, we knew that we’d need more space. Since space is the final frontier, it was time for my idea to be a reality. It was time to trade my bachelor sports car in for the ultimate symbol of parenting: a minivan.
When people ask me why I turned my minivan into a Star Trek shuttlecraft, I tell them
that, if I was going to be a minivan dad, I was going to own a vehicle worth
driving. It would a fun expression of my love of Star Trek and the fact that I was now a parent schlepper shuttling my kids around town.
The first “shuttlecraft” was a gray 1997 Oldsmobile
Silhouette. I debated whether it should be white or gray. My wife pointed out
that a white van with red stripes would look like an ambulance. Besides, my
model shuttlecraft was gray. So I went to a sign shop and asked them to make my
van look just like it. They did a great job! I drove the first shuttle Galileo
for about seven years before replacing it with the van I have been driving for
ten years in April.
And now I am facing the end of that era: I am about to
replace my minivan with a car, a sedan. Now that my younger child is about to
get his drivers license, I am finally considering purchasing a car to replace
what my elder child affectionately calls the “nerdmobile.” My minivan days are
coming to an end.
Our minivan has, in many respects, been like everyone else’s: It has been in the elementary school pick up line, the high school parking lot, and done a ton of car pooling. It has been to sports games, rehearsals, and field trips. It has taken dozens of Sunday school students to churches, temples, mosques, mandirs, and other houses of worships. It lets us take grandparents, cousins, aunts, uncles, neighbors, and friends with us! It goes back and forth from summer camp every year.
However, there are aspects to our minivan that most parents
will never experience. Do people often photograph your car? Do you come out of
stores to find people gathered around it? Do people flash you the Vulcan salute
on the highway? How many notes have been left on your minivans that were not
about car accidents?
In our community, the van is our on-the-road signature. When
we are further afield, it is our connection to the wonderful science fiction
and Star Trek fan community. We are
never anonymous on the road. While this may have some obvious downsides, it has
also means that my elder child, when driving her father’s “nerdmobile” knew
that she would be held accountable for her choices on the road – and her father
would be, too.
The van isn’t going away immediately. For the short term,
we’ll keep it as a third car. But its days are numbered. We’re not pushing
strollers, carrying diaper bags, or signing up for carpools any more. We don’t
move bikes, sports equipment, or double basses any more. A sedan will be just
fine for our needs.
Yet, I will miss the “Enterprise” as others call it. If you
drive a minivan, you know that it is a little house on wheels. It is where the
kids will talk and reveal their concerns and feelings. It is where their
friends will forget there is an adult at the helm and let a dad eavesdrop on
their adolescent concerns. It held the entire family when the entire family was
in one place. That doesn’t happen much any more.
We boldly went where no minivan had gone before. That journey is coming to an end. A new one is beginning. We had the shuttle. We had the shuttle’s next generation. Now it is time to go explore new vehicles and new stages of life. Something tells me that I am going to miss the nerdmobile and the young family it transported.
