As my students (and my own child) make their decisions and plans for college, I thought it would be helpful to have some resources to help prepare. Going to college can feel overwhelming not only to newly minted college students but to their families as well.
Here are some articles to guide all of us on our paths from high school to college:
Here is a great packing list for college. It is not tailored for everyone, but use it to start a list that works for you.
Counseling Today reported about a study that says that many high school students, though academically ready for college, are not emotionally prepared. Here is a summary of what that study found. Think about discussing these issues as a family. Parents sometimes need some help in this area as well. Here is a letter to new parents that helps them get ready.
You should never pay full price for textbooks. There are many sites that sell textbooks for less. Hackcollege describes many of them. Here is a site that compares these different sources. All you do is put in the ISBN number and comparison shop – and save money! Lifehacker also had a good article on saving money on textbooks that is worth a read.
There is a huge difference between going to high school and going to college. The expectations and schedule mean that many students need to develop much more discipline and new strategies to cope. Here is an article outlining some study tips.
Finding a major can be a big issue in college. Here is an article that describes the Hedgehog Concept to help identify a good career path. I am still a big fan of Richard Bolles’ What Color is Your Parachute as a way to explore possible interests, passions, and careers.
With or without a clear focus, registering for classes can be challenging. Hackcollege provides some ideas for how to get into classes that are already full.
The social scene on campus is as critical to the college experience as academics. However, it is fraught with challenges. Parents worry about their children’s wellbeing on campus. How do can students prepare for the prevalence of drugs and alcohol? What do we do to prevent our children from becoming victims (or perpetrators) of sexual violence? The Washington Post has a series of articles on these issues that I highly recommend. Here are five safety tips for students spelled out very clearly. Finally, NPR reported on some programs that teach students to proactively prevent sexual violence.
Students are always looking for internships and jobs. Here is a list of fifteen stories to prepare for a job or internship interview.
Did you know that, if college students go into certain fields, their college loans may be forgiven? This is certainly worth a little research and consideration when choosing a major.
Preparing for college can be overwhelming. Talking to friends and experts, speaking candidly with family, and utilizing your resources can make it more manageable. If you have other good articles, please put the links in the comments section.
Finally, enjoy this process! It is a chance to plan and problem solve as a family. The preparations for college are an opportunity to get a good start on the bridge between childhood and adulthood. Whether this is an open discussion of finances and college costs, a laundry lesson, or agreeing about how much contact is enough, the college process opens up new discussions and can deepen and strengthen family relationships. Good luck!
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